Why was all of this not in the original document checklist?
It seems strange that the whole process cannot simply be laid out for applicants to see what is coming. The sysme the way it is begins to feel like a torture.
Date: 14–20 April 2026
Stage: Additional Documentation Requested
On 14 April 2026, we received an email from the UK Decision Making Centre requesting further evidence in support of our application.
The request was specific.
While our marriage certificate (dated 15/02/2017) had been accepted as proof that our marriage took place, it was not considered sufficient evidence that we are in an ongoing, genuine, and subsisting relationship.
We were asked to provide:
- Evidence of our relationship over time (e.g. photographs)
- Proof that we had lived together
- Evidence of ongoing communication
- Any joint or supporting financial or domestic documentation
- Our child’s birth certificate
We were given 10 working days to respond and instructed to submit all documents directly as email attachments (no file-sharing links permitted).
Our Response
We compiled a comprehensive body of evidence designed to demonstrate our relationship across multiple dimensions: historical, practical, emotional, and financial.
Due to Gmail’s 25MB attachment limit, and the requirement that files be sent directly (not via external links), we submitted this evidence across multiple emails. This was purely a technical necessity to ensure all documents were received in full and in an accessible format for the caseworker.
Taken together, our submission included:
- Our child’s birth certificate, confirming both parents and our shared residential address between 2011–2024
- A structured photographic timeline of our relationship from 2011 to the present day, evidencing:
- Early relationship development
- Our Marriage
- The birth of our son
- Continuous family life, shared experiences, and home life over many years
- Evidence of ongoing communication, including:
- A full export of our WhatsApp history (2018–present)
- Representative monthly screenshots to make the communication pattern clear and accessible
- Documentary evidence addressed to our shared residence, confirming cohabitation
- Testimonials from individuals who know us personally, many of whom have visited or stayed with us in our home
- A personal narrative explaining the ongoing financial support within our relationship
- A Revolut transaction export, demonstrating regular transfers from Lloyd to Susi, covering:
- Everyday living costs
- Groceries
- Health-related needs (including treatment for Susi’s back condition)
- Ongoing family responsibilities
Framing Our Circumstances
Across the submission, we made a consistent and important clarification:
We are in a genuine and subsisting relationship, with a long shared history and a child together.
Our current period of living apart is:
- Temporary
- Circumstantial
- A direct result of immigration requirements
It is not reflective of the nature or strength of our relationship.
We remain in:
- Continuous contact
- An active and engaged family life
- A clear and stated intention to reunite permanently in the UK
What This Stage Required
This was not simply a matter of providing documents.
It required us to:
- Translate over a decade of shared life into structured, evidential form
- Ensure clarity and coherence for a third-party decision maker
- Balance completeness with accessibility
- Present a consistent narrative supported by independent corroboration
Where We Now Stand
All requested documents have been submitted in full, within the required timeframe.
The application now returns to the UK Decision Making Centre for assessment.
At this point, everything that can reasonably be evidenced has been provided:
- The history of our relationship
- The continuity of our family life
- The practical realities of our circumstances
- The intention behind our application
The decision now rests with them….so, again – we wait.
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